Maximizer

Those who engaged in a limited search and settled quickly with the first alternative that was satisfactory or “good
enough” were called satisficers. Satisficers were reported to be more
optimistic and have higher self-esteem and life satisfaction, whereas maximizers excelled in depression, perfectionism, regret, and self-
blame.

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